“You have to keep breaking your heart until it opens” – Rumi

BREAKING OUR OWN HEARTS IS A TOOL FOR OUR SURRENDER AND OUR GROWTH

OH, RUMI. YOU JUST GET ME.

Part of this human journey is about going toward love over and over and over and equally learning to love ourselves until we really, truly learn what we need, want, and value.

WHY WE SABOTAGE

Breaking our own hearts is a tool for our surrender and our growth. Every human soul goes through a phase(s) of self-sabotage. We sabotage because we are afraid of our own power to create. We sabotage because we know on the other side of what we want is the work it will take to make it a reality, and frankly, sometimes we are too tired or lazy to do the work.

BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF

If that’s where you are, that’s ok. Just be honest with yourself… This could sound like: “I want a relationship, but I’m not in a space to give it my all, so I need to be honest with myself and others about my capacity right now.” “I really want to be my own boss, but I don’t have the time or energy to do it right now, so I am going to make the best of my current job.” Keep breaking your heart. Keep being honest with yourself and others and you will open to another wonderful chapter.